You’re not failing at dating.

You’re just miscast.

If you keep meeting people—but don’t feel truly MET, the issue isn’t chemistry, confidence, or effort.

It’s about how you’re coming across.

Most people never realize this is happening, or get the opportunity to correct it.

The rules that apply to casting are the same as dating:
people decide quickly, instinctively, and without explanation.

As an award-winning Hollywood casting director, Cupid Hayes has spent decades watching capable, compelling people walk into rooms convinced they were coming across one way, but were being read completely differently.

The difference between who you are and how you’re read is where things quietly fall apart.

Let Cupid Be Your Wingman™ isn’t dating advice. There are no tips, scripts, or confidence tricks.

It’s a precise lens on why effort hasn’t worked, and why effort alone hasn’t changed the outcome.

This is not about changing who you are. It’s about how you’re being read.

When alignment is right, dating stops feeling like work.

If this felt familiar, it wasn't accidental.